Category Archives: Motivational

Be A Mentor!

We all know kids who sit on church pews bored to death just waiting for the service to be over.  Would they be more interested in church if they could be involved in your music program?  Most children love music and their ability to memorize songs is sometimes amazing.  It is also interesting that the child who is exposed to a musical instrument will probably be able to play that instrument when they grow up. 

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Many small churches do not have enough praise singers, bass players, drummers, and keyboard or organ players.  Start a mentoring program in your church NOW.  Teach the children while they are young and allow them to get involved early in Sunday School, Children’s Church or Youth Ministry.  By allowing a child to participate, you are developing a leader.  It also encourages faithfulness because that child will not want to miss a service!PrestleyandMom

I encourage my students to have a background of note reading and ear training.  This will allow them to “communicate” in the musical world without having to apologize “oh I just play by ear.”  Come on—it’s not rocket science!  Note lessons should be supplemented by ear lessons in order to be proficient in a Pentecostal worship service.  Quite honestly, musicians who only can play just by note or just by ear are equally handicapped!

Learning to sing in harmony is another thing that usually just doesn’t “happen” but can be taught.  Ask your adults who are proficient in singing harmonies to mentor a young person. Let the young lady who wants to sing alto, sit next to an alto in service.  If you have someone who can teach hearing and singing intervals, that is also helpful.

Remember, it doesn’t take long for a child to become a teenager and a teenager to become a young adult.  This cycle will occur whether or not they are learning music and developing leadership skills!  Why not tap into hidden talent and allow it to become a blessing to your congregation!

Yes! I Can!

There is a disorder which can hinder your music ability!  It’s the “Why Bother?”  Syndrome.  How often have you asked that yourself or heard that question? 

  • “I’m going to learn to read music better this year!”  “Oh, why bother? — It’s not like I’m going to play at Carnegie Hall!”
  • “I’ve got some songs that I need to get published so I’m going to find out how.”  “Oh there are so many songs out there already, why bother?”

Don’t let a “why bother” attitude in yourself or other people kill off your new ideas, plans and dreams!  Let’s get positive and tune them out!  Remember before Roger Bannister ran the 4-minute miles in 1954, experts said it was impossible.  Within months after his feat, many more runners did it.  Now hundreds have!

If you want to be a successful musician, you’ve got to stop the “Why Bother Syndrome.”  Don’t allow yourself to say “Why Bother?”  Instead say: “How can I do this?” or “What will it take to make this work?”

Sometimes old habits die hard.  Don’t let this trap of “Why Bother” cut off your progress and growth.  Squelch the nay Sayers and then DO IT!   YES I CAN!!!

Remember that:

I + M + P = S
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